I am not You, You are not Me,I am not Him, He is not Me

Why? you may ask ? Why people go for motivation course, talks ? why? No confidence? Not sure.
Why I wrote something with so many question marks ?
Infact I'm not sure, why do they ask people for advice ? What make them think that after receiving those advise they can settle their problems? Those who gave advice are professionals, experts , they teach people for a living but can you follow their every steps ? Some may argue, they can because they felt motivated after listen to their talks , experts opinions and some felt they have paid a premium fee for those talks and they need to say they can but are You Him?
Can you follow their every steps to solve your problems? Did the expert really knew your problems because He is not You! Did he understand your problems, you migth be a shy or low confidence person , can you follow those energetic motivated steps?
Some people I knew read a lot of books, motivation books, some are best seller but can you remember everything ? Maybe you are motivated after you read the book but after a while can you still feel motivated ?
Those experts are trainers , some are call life trainers, they train people about style, how to spend their money, how to live , how to eat and the list go on but are you the trainers? can you be like them, I mean so aware of your surrounding , what people or rather how they look at you?
Can you?

My sons in action